I love the idea of homeschool co-ops (definition: a group of homeschooling moms who gather together with purpose and for support). Of course, the purpose behind the homeschool co-op varies with each group.
Some meet to share teaching responsibilities, some meet for field trips or activities, and others gather for social reasons or just to encourage each other. The important thing to remember is to pick a group that meets YOUR needs (no, you’re not being selfish). For example: if you need encouragement that can only come from another homeschool mom, then don’t go to an “academic focused” co-op. If you do, I guarantee you’ll leave each meeting feeling more discouraged than when you arrived.
Don’t have a support group? Then start one. Don’t be scared; it doesn’t have to be any more than inviting your homeschool mom friends for an hour or two to sit in a circle and talk and/or pray. See if a couple husbands or older teens would play some games with the kids while you meet or meet at night and leave the kids at home.
If you don’t know what to talk about, ask the ladies these simple questions: Why do you homeschool? What is the hardest part of homeschooling right now? Fill In the blank: “I sometimes feel like tossing in the towel because ________________.”
That should get any group of moms talking and sharing. The trouble will be stopping them when the time is up.
If you feel the need for encouragement or don’t feel like there are any good co-ops in your area, I’m betting there are other moms who feel that way as well. So do it. Start a group. You don’t have to name it, have refreshments, or have some kind of program. Just find a place to meet and … meet.
By the way, did you know that if you live within 5 hours of northern Indiana, you can have me speak to your homeschooling group during the school year? I love speaking at support groups and co-ops and because you live close to me, it’s super easy. Just click here to get the ball rolling. To see my fall speaking schedule, click here.
Be real,
Todd
